Rituals
Small things to do together.
Rituals is a shared checklist for the two of you: ideas to try, plans to make, things to do or talk about together. Light its candle when it’s done.
Part of Intimate Plus. One plan covers both of you. Open Profile in the app to try it free for 14 days, no card needed. See Intimate Plus
Let’s get intimateRituals
A shared checklist for the two of you: ideas to try, plans to make, things to do or talk about together. Light its candle when it’s done.
✦ PlusRituals are part of Intimate Plus.
Cook a slow dinner together
Robin added it today 6:40pm · New
Phone-free hour after dinner
You added it Mon 19 Oct, 8:15am
Plan the weekend away
Robin added it Thu 1 Oct, 9:05pm
Tap a candle to light it when it’s done. The longer one waits, the more it melts. Lighting it also ticks its connections for today.
The list
One checklist for the two of you
Rituals is a shared checklist: ideas to try, plans to make, things to do or talk about together. Either of you can add a ritual of up to 200 characters. Open Rituals from the Intimate Plus page in the app.
Under each ritual are icons to move it up or down, edit its words, or move it to the bin. Changes show on both phones straight away.
Rituals
Your list
Robin added it today 6:40pm
Phone-free hour after dinner
You added it Mon 19 Oct, 8:15am
Plan the weekend away
Robin added it Thu 1 Oct, 9:05pm
Tap a candle to light it when it’s done. The longer one waits, the more it melts. Lighting it also ticks its connections for today.
Light it
Light a candle when it’s done
Each ritual is drawn as a tall candle. Tap the candle when the ritual is done. The flame lights up, flickers and sends up a few sparks.
Lit rituals move to the Lit section, and their candles keep burning. Each one shows who lit it and when, and who added it and when. Tap a lit candle to blow it out.
The longer a ritual waits unlit, the more its candle melts. After about 3 weeks it has melted most of the way down.
Rituals
Light a candle
Lit (3)
Bake bread on Saturday
You lit it today 5:02pm · added by you Sat 17 Oct, 9:10am
Write each other a note
Robin lit it Tue 20 Oct, 8:20am · added by you Mon 19 Oct, 7:05pm
Stretch together before bed
You lit it Mon 19 Oct, 10:15pm · added by Robin Sun 4 Oct, 6:50pm
Connections
Link a ritual to your connections
Each ritual can be linked to connection points, the things that make you feel close. When you add a ritual, you can pick from your own points. This step is optional. Your person can add theirs.
When either of you lights the ritual, its connection points are ticked for today, for the person each one belongs to. If you blow the candle out, only the points that the ritual ticked are unticked.
Rituals
Add a ritual
Which of your connections would it support? (optional)
Walk after dinner
You added it today 6:12pm
Which of your connections does it support?
The bin
A bin that keeps them for 30 days
A ritual you move to the bin stays there for 30 days. Bring it back, or delete it forever. You can also empty the bin.
Rituals
The bin
🗑️ Bin (2)
Removed rituals stay here for 30 days.
Try the new pasta place
Removed by you today 6:55pm · 30 days left
Learn a card game
Removed by Robin Mon 12 Oct, 8:30pm · 21 days left
Home and alerts
Your person sees it on Home
When your person adds a ritual, a notice glows on your Home: “Robin added a ritual for you both ✨”. It doesn’t say what the ritual is, so you open Rituals to see.
You can also get a notification on your phone, if you turned notifications on for that device. You can switch this alert off under Notifications.
Wednesday evening
Good evening, Sam
Today Robin would love
Wednesday 21 October
6:41
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