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Spark

Something nice to do, every day.

Spark gives you up to 3 ideas a day for something nice to do for your person. Each idea comes from what helped them on days like today.

Part of Intimate Plus. One plan covers both of you. Open Profile in the app to try it free for 14 days, no card needed. See Intimate Plus

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Plans

Spark

✨ Spark✦ Plus

Something nice to do for Robin today, from what’s helped them on days like this.

Quality time for Robin

Robin picked ⏳ Quality time in “Today I’d love” today.

Good idea?👎 Not for us👍 Good💖 Love it

✨ Another spark

2 of 3 sparks left today

🔒 Only you can see your sparks. Robin never does, so it stays a surprise.

Show me a spark

Up to 3 ideas a day

Spark lives on Plans, in the menu. Tap “Show me a spark” for an idea for something nice to do for your person. Tap “Another spark” for a new one.

You get 3 sparks a day, and each one is a new idea. Spark shows how many are left. It opens after 3 weeks of checking in together, once your person has joined.

Plans

Spark

✨ Spark✦ Plus

Something nice to do for Robin today, from what’s helped them on days like this.

Alone time for Robin

On days like today, Robin asked for 🌿 Alone time 4 times. The day after, Robin usually felt better (5 times).

Good idea?👎 Not for us👍 Good💖 Love it

✨ Another spark

1 of 3 sparks left today

🔒 Only you can see your sparks. Robin never does, so it stays a surprise.

Why this idea

Made from days like today

Spark looks at the last 90 days. It finds the days when your person’s mood, energy and capacity were within 1 step of today’s, and checks what helped on those days. Until they check in today, it uses their good days.

It reads needs they asked for that meant 4 or 5 hearts, their “Today I’d love…” picks and the connections they ticked. Today’s picks count most. Each idea uses their own words and shows its reason.

Spark

Why each idea

A need they loved

Surprise Robin with: Slow massage

Robin asked for this 3 times and it meant ♥♥♥♥♥, once on a day like today.

Today’s pick

Stillness for Robin

Robin picked 🕯️ Stillness in “Today I’d love” today.

A connection

Make time for Long hug with Robin

On days like today, Long hug made Robin feel close 5 times.

Fits the day

It adjusts to the day

When their capacity is low, quiet and restful ideas come first. Intimate ideas come up only when they chose “Maybe” or more for In the mood today. A day in the mood, or a period that is on or due, makes the matching ideas more likely, if they share it.

Home shows a notice when your person has a day 30% below their own 90-day average in energy, capacity and mood. It opens Spark. It needs a check-in today and at least 7 days of history.

Tuesday evening

Good evening, Sam

✨ Robin is having a harder day than usual. Show me a spark: something that’s helped them on days like this.
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Robin is feeling low

Updated 2 min ago

Today Robin would love

🤲 Touch🕯️ Stillness

Rate it

Teach it what fits

Rate each idea: “Not for us”, “Good” or “Love it”. “Not for us” never comes up again. “Good” and “Love it” come up more often.

Every night, Intimate also checks how your person’s next day went after each thing. Ideas that came before better days come up more. Only you can see your sparks. Your person never does, so it stays a surprise.

Plans

Spark

✨ Spark✦ Plus

Something nice to do for Robin today, from what’s helped them on days like this.

Kind words for Robin

Robin picked 💬 Kind words in “Today I’d love” today.

Good idea?👎 Not for us👍 Good💖 Love it

✨ Another spark

2 of 3 sparks left today

🔒 Only you can see your sparks. Robin never does, so it stays a surprise.

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