01 · Check in
Energy, capacity, in the mood.
Each has 5 labeled steps. Capacity is what you have to give today. In the mood is how open you are to intimacy.
A private daily check-in app for couples
Tell each other how you are and what you’d love today.
Intimate is a private app for two people. Check in, ask for what you’d love, and tick what helped you feel close. Most of it takes a few taps.
Works from your phone’s Home Screen.
- United States
- India
- Germany
- Brazil
- Japan
- South Africa
- United Kingdom
- Canada
- Singapore
- France
- Australia
- New Zealand
For couples everywhere. Any country, any time zone, any phone.
What brings you close
Your threads
Each tick is one strand.
ThreadsYour ticks braid into one named thread for each point. More ticks make a thicker thread.
Different cities, one shared space.
Long-distance and cross-time-zone couples are welcome. Your day resets at midnight in your own time zone.
New York
Morning
Sydney
Night
MoodsEnergyCapacityIn the moodToday I’d loveSleepEngagementHabit ticksSomething to shareTheir cardHeads-upsIn syncLive updatesIdea of the dayMoon and sun signsRecap alertSparkRitualsAsk in 3 wordsDay and timeRemembered wordingYes, Later or Not todayAnswer noteChange answerHeartsIt didn’t happenYour yesesPast needsOne at a timeFelt connected10 connection points
Own iconsHeart weightThreads mapDay by dayMonth reportClearest patternPerfect day plannerWeekly recapMe, them or bothEnergy linesSleep chartIn sync chartNeeds in wordsFollow one needShared calendarCycle stripPhase guideMy period startedPrivate Log9 Log categoriesShare cardsStory or squareHide namesNotificationsDiscreet notificationsQuiet hoursInvite codeOwn time zoneOwn colorDesktop sidebar
It can be hard to know how your partner is feeling.
After a busy day, many couples ask “tired?”, hear “a bit”, and leave it there. Asking directly can feel awkward.
Intimate gives you both a short daily check-in your person can see, and a simple way to ask.
How it works
How a day with Intimate goes.
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Check in
01Pick your mood, energy, capacity and what you’d love today. Your person sees it when you save.
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See your person
02Home shows their mood, what they’d love and when they last checked in.
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Ask for something
03Ask in up to 3 words and pick a time. Your person taps Yes, Later or Not today.
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Tick what helped
04Tick what made you feel close, such as a long hug or a walk.
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Track habits and sleep
05Tick up to 3 habits and add last night’s sleep. Your person sees your progress.
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Share a calendar
06Add work, travel, dates and plans to one calendar. Each event shows in the color of who added it.
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Review your week
07Read the Monday recap and the reports. See what goes with your better days, then adjust.
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See how connected you are
08Each tick adds a strand to a thread. In sync counts the days you matched.
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Look at the forecast
09See the next 3 days, and your chance of being in sync on each of the next 14.
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Make a card
10Turn your month into a picture card. It is made on your device.
Day by day
A typical day.
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Morning
Check in.
Save your mood, energy and what you’d love today.
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Midday
See your person’s card.
Home shows how they are today.
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All day
Tick connections.
Tick each hug, talk or walk that helped.
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Evening
Log habits and sleep.
Tick your habits and add last night’s sleep.
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Monday
Look at the report.
See your week and what goes with your better days.
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Any time
See how you are moving.
Threads and In sync show how you each are doing.
New
Do something nice. Plan a perfect day.
Spark
Something nice to do, every day.
Spark gives you up to 3 ideas a day for something nice to do for your person.
Each idea comes from what helped them on days like today.
Only you see your sparks, so it stays a surprise.
- Up to 3 ideas a day
- From your last 90 days
- A reason on every idea
Part of Intimate Plus. One plan covers both of you. See Intimate Plus
Plans
Spark
✨ Spark✦ Plus
Something nice to do for Robin today, from what’s helped them on days like this.
Quality time for Robin
Robin picked ⏳ Quality time in “Today I’d love” today.
Good idea?👎 Not for us👍 Good💖 Love it
Stillness for Robin
Robin picked 🕯️ Stillness in “Today I’d love” today.
Good idea?👎 Not for us👍 Good💖 Love it
Make time for Long hug with Robin
On days like today, Long hug made Robin feel close 5 times.
Good idea?👎 Not for us👍 Good💖 Love it
✨ Another spark
2 of 3 sparks left today
🔒 Only you can see your sparks. Robin never does, so it stays a surprise.
Perfect day planner
Plan one good day, together.
Your best days become one plan for you both. You get 2 a month.
The plan is drawn on a day ribbon, with a reason for each step.
Drag a dot to change it. You both see every change.
- 2 perfect days a month
- From your last 90 days
- A reason for each step
Part of Intimate Plus. One plan covers both of you. See Intimate Plus
Perfect day
Your perfect day
Made 14 October, from your 9 best days out of the 31 you both checked in.
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7am Wake up Both of you
😴 Up around 7am, after about 7½ hours’ sleep each
On your best days you slept 24 minutes more on average than on other days. The time is when you usually first check in.
2
8am Morning You
✅ Walk
Done on 6 of your 9 best days, against 31% of other days. Usually the most energy in the morning.
Find your starting point
What’s going on for you?
Pick what fits you best. We’ll suggest where to start.
We’re busy and out of syncOne of us finds it hard to askWe’re apart a lot, or our schedules don’t matchWe want to understand our patternsWe’d like something nice to shareWe’d like to start simpleWe want to support each other’s habitsWe want to improve each other’s energy and moodWe want to know how to respond, and what each of us needs and whenWe find it hard to talk about what we needWe want to feel closer after a hard patchWe want to understand our cycle and moods
Choose one above. You can change your mind.
Start here
We’re busy and out of sync
Home shows how you both are today, before either of you asks.
A one-line heads-up appears when your days don’t line up.
Three features that fit
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Your person’s card.
Their mood, capacity and what they’d love show on Home once they check in.
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One-line heads-ups.
One line appears when something’s worth knowing, such as your energy high and theirs low.
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In sync.
When your check-ins match closely, Home shows an In sync card and counts the day.
See the demo →
Tuesday evening
Good evening, Sam
😌🥰
✨ You’re in sync today
You and Robin feel much the same today.
You both picked 🤲 Touch and 🕯️ Stillness. Mood, energy, capacity and in the mood are each within one step.
Start here
One of us finds it hard to ask
You ask in up to 3 words. Your person answers with one tap.
Your person can add a note to any answer, even Not today.
Three features that fit
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Yes, Later or Not today.
Your person answers with one tap. A note of up to 140 characters is optional.
See the demo →
Just between you two
Needs
What would you love?
Slow massage
Up to three words
When
TodayTomorrowThursday
MorningAfternoonEveningNight
Send
Sent. Robin will see it when they’re ready.
Start here
We’re apart a lot, or our schedules don’t match
You each check in when it suits you. The other sees it right away.
Each of you has your own time zone. Your day resets at your own midnight.
Three features that fit
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Something to share.
One note a day, up to 30 words, for a win or a thought you’d save for later.
See the demo →
Your check-in
How are you feeling?
🙂Content😌Calm🥰Loving😴Tired😵💫Overwhelmed🫧Need space
What Robin sees
😌 Sam is feeling calm
Start here
We want to understand our patterns
Reports build as you both check in: a Monday recap, charts for each of you, and how often you were in sync.
The larger reports open after 8, 14 and 30 days of check-ins.
Three features that fit
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Monday’s recap.
Last week at a glance: days in sync, needs met, best day and hardest day.
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Choose the range and the person.
Pick 3 to 90 days. Show yourself, your person or both of you.
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How often you were in sync.
A percentage, with the days you were both doing well and both low.
See the demo →
October so far
Reports
64%✨ Days in sync
7 of 9🔥 Needs met
Energy
Capacity
In sync
Great day · Good day · Okay day · Harder day · Tough day
Start here
We’d like to start simple
Start a space (your shared place for two), send the code, and each pick what you’d love today.
The other features are optional.
Three features that fit
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Start a space for two.
A 6-character code. Your person types it in, and you’re both in.
See the demo →
Start a space
Your code
K7M2QX
Share this with your person.
Robin joined. A space holds exactly two.
Start here
We want to support each other’s habits
Each of you sets up to 3 habits and a weekly goal.
You see each other’s progress on Home.
Three features that fit
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Your person’s card.
It shows their mood, what they’d love today, sleep, habits and shares. It updates when they save.
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Habits and how you feel.
See which habits you kept on low-energy days, next to good days.
See the demo →
Your week
Habits
My habits today
Walk3 of 5 this weekRead4 of 5 this weekStretch2 of 3 this week
Robin sees your progress on Home.
Start here
We want to improve each other’s energy and mood
Check in each day to see how you both really are.
Reports show which habits go with your better days.
Three features that fit
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Energy, capacity, in the mood.
Each has 5 labeled steps. Capacity is what you have to give today. In the mood is how open you are to intimacy.
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Habits and how you feel.
See which habits you kept on low-energy days, next to good days.
See the demo → -
A line per measure.
Energy, capacity, in the mood, sleep and engagement, each in your own color.
See the demo →
Today
How are you feeling?
Today I’d love…
💬 Kind words⏳ Quality time🤲 Touch🕯️ Stillness😴 Rest🌿 Alone time
Start here
We want to know how to respond, and what each of us needs and when
Home shows how your person is, so you can respond before they ask.
Lines on the reports show how each of you usually feels over time.
Three features that fit
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Your person’s card.
It shows their mood, what they’d love today, sleep, habits and shares. It updates when they save.
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One-line heads-ups.
Each is one short sentence about what is happening, for example: “Your energy is high today.”
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A line per measure.
Energy, capacity, in the mood, sleep and engagement, each in your own color.
See the demo →
What the days ahead may bring
The days ahead
Chance of being in sync
Today20%Wed35%Thu60%Fri85%Sat50%Sun30%Mon70%
Mood weather
● Sam
☀️Tod🌤️Wed⛅Thu☀️Fri🌦️Sat🌧️Sun🌤️Mon
● Robin
🌤️Tod⛅Wed🌤️Thu☀️Fri☀️Sat🌦️Sun🌤️Mon
Start here
We find it hard to talk about what we need
Share one short note a day, so small things get said early.
Your person answers Yes, Later or Not today, and you rate how much it meant.
Three features that fit
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Hearts for what it meant.
The person who asked taps hearts, from “A little” to “Meant the world”. Reports show what mattered most.
See the demo →
Robin asked for
Slow massage
Thursday · evening
Yes
Later
Not today
Tap an answer.
Afterwards: how much did it mean?
A littleMeant the world
Start here
We want to feel closer after a hard patch
Tick the small things that help you feel close, such as a long hug or a walk.
Each tick adds a strand, and your person sees how bold each thread is.
Three features that fit
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Tick what brought you close.
Choose today or yesterday, then add a long hug, a walk or an evening without phones.
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Each tick adds a strand.
Your ticks braid into one named thread for each point. More ticks make a thicker thread.
See the demo →
Today
Felt connected
What helped you feel close?
🫂 Long hug💬 Deep talk🌙 Cuddled in bed🚶 Walk together📵 Phone-free time💆 Massage
2 ticked today
Robin ticked 🫂 Long hug and 🌙 Cuddled in bed.
Start here
We want to understand our cycle and moods
Cycle tracking is off until you switch it on.
The calendar then shows today’s phase, and your person gets heads-ups.
Three features that fit
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Optional cycle tracking.
Off until you switch it on. The calendar shows today’s phase and a 14-day strip. Your person gets heads-ups.
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How you both usually are.
Usual energy, capacity and mood in each cycle phase, from the last 90 days.
See the demo →
Shared by you both
Calendar
Robin’s cycle
🌧️ Pre-period
Can feel tender, tired or irritable. Patience and kindness help.
Mon🌱Tue🌱Wed🌱Thu✨Fri✨Sat🍂Sun🍂Mon🍂Tue🍂Wed🌧️Thu🌧️Fri🩸Sat🩸Sun🩸
Cycle tracking is opt-in. Predictions are a guide only.
For every kind of couple.
Any gender, any pairing. Each of you picks how you describe yourself, or chooses Prefer not to say.
- Woman
- Man
- Non-binary
- Trans woman
- Trans man
- Prefer not to say
Intimate uses your choice for one thing: the word it shows when you hide names, such as Her, Him or My person.
Cycle tracking is optional. Anyone can switch it on, and either of you, or both, can track.
Everything inside
13 screens from the app, in the order of a day.
Scroll, or tap a dot to jump to a screen.
- 13screens, in the order of a day
- 15moods
- 3scales, 5 steps each
- 12“Today I’d love” picks
- 3words per need
- 3answers: Yes, Later, Not today
- 2people per space
- 3Spark ideas a day
- 90days of history behind each idea and plan
02 · In sync
In sync.
When you both pick 2 or more of the same options and your levels are within 1 step, your Home screen lights up.
03 · Spark New
Up to 3 ideas a day.
Something nice to do for your person, made from what helped them on days like today.
04 · Ask
Ask in up to 3 words.
Say what you’d love, for example “Slow massage” or “Long kissing”.
05 · Answer
Yes, Later or Not today.
The person you ask picks one of 3 answers and can add a note of up to 140 characters.
06 · Felt connected
Tick what brought you close.
Choose today or yesterday, then add a long hug, a walk or an evening without phones.
07 · Threads
Each tick adds a strand.
Your ticks braid into one named thread for each point. More ticks make a thicker thread.
08 · Weekly recap
Monday’s recap.
Days in sync, needs met, best and hardest day, and a few shared notes.
09 · Forecast
Chance of being in sync.
A chance for each of the next 14 days, based on how often you’ve really been in sync.
10 · Cycle
Optional cycle tracking.
Off until you switch it on. The calendar shows today’s phase and a 14-day strip. Your person gets heads-ups.
11 · Share cards
Share cards.
Images made from your stats, such as Our stats, Felt connected, Our threads, In sync and Mood.
12 · Perfect day New
One good day, planned together.
Your best days become a plan on a day ribbon. Every step shows its reason.
13 · Notifications
Quiet notifications.
Off until you switch them on. The lock screen reads “Sam shared a need 💫” unless you ask for details.
Today
How are you feeling?
Today I’d love…
💬 Kind words⏳ Quality time🤲 Touch🕯️ Stillness😴 Rest🌿 Alone time
Intimate nowWhat couples say.
ten years in
After 10 years we mostly asked if we were fine. Now Tom reads my check-in with his coffee.
long distance
I check Ben’s card at lunch to see if he has the energy for a call.
new parents
We use the sleep slider more than anything. When Fatima logs 4 hours of sleep, I take the first feed.
shy about asking
I find it hard to ask. Writing 3 words and picking a time is much easier. Marcus said yes to ‘Slow massage’.
mismatched schedules
Nina works rotating shifts and I work 9 to 5. We use ‘Today I’d love’ most days.
saying no kindly
Sophie answered ‘Not today’ with a note: ‘rough week, ask me Friday’. The note made it easier to hear.
cycle heads-up
Hana turned on cycle tracking, so I get a heads-up the day before her period.
threads
I tick ‘Walk together’ and ‘Phone-free time’. Omar ticks ‘Helped out’. Our lists are very different.
Felt connected
Each tick adds a strand to a thread.
A thread gets thicker each time you tick it, and brighter with more hearts. After a month, the map shows all your threads side by side.
You give each connection (each thread) 1 to 3 hearts. Your person sees how bold each thread is. The number stays hidden.
Your threads, one month.
Privacy
Only the two of you can see your space.
Intimate holds personal information. Only your person sees what you share.
- Exactly two people. A space holds you and your person.
- A private Log. Notes about your person that only you can read.
- Discreet notifications. The lock screen shows “Sam shared a need 💫”. The need shows only in the app. Quiet hours are on by default.
- Share cards made on your device. Nothing is uploaded when you make one.
- No ad trackers in the app.
Your data is not end-to-end encrypted. The privacy page lists what we can and can’t promise.
Today’s mood & wishes You both
A need you ask for You both
Your Log Only you
The number on a connection Only you
What Intimate does.
Your check-in
How are you feeling?
🙂Content😌Calm🥰Loving😴Tired😵💫Overwhelmed🫧Need space
What Robin sees
😌 Sam is feeling calm
01
A shared daily record.
You each record how you are and what you’d love. Your person sees it when you save. There is no messaging.
Mon 6 – Sun 12 October
Your week
3✨ Days in sync
2 of 3🔥 Needs met · 💖 1 loved
Wed🌿 Best day
Sun🌧️ Hardest day
·M✨T✨W·T✨F·S·S
Home tells you on Monday that it’s ready.
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Heads-ups and a weekly recap.
You get a one-line heads-up when your days don’t match, and a recap every Monday. Spark, part of Intimate Plus, suggests something nice to do.
October so far
Reports
64%✨ Days in sync
7 of 9🔥 Needs met
Energy
Capacity
In sync
Great day · Good day · Okay day · Harder day · Tough day
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Reports on your patterns.
Reports show what tends to go with your better days. They say so when there is not enough data yet.
Your check-in
Today I’d love…
💬 Kind words⏳ Quality time🤲 Touch🕯️ Stillness😴 Rest🌿 Alone time
At the top of Robin’s view of you
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Quick to use.
Most of it is a few taps. It gives no medical or therapy advice.
Ready to get intimate?
Log in or sign up, then share your 6-character code with your person. You can both check in the same day.
Let’s get intimate
It opens in your browser. Add it to your Home Screen and it works like an app.